EXPERIENCE
The greatest discovery of our generation
is that human beings can alter their lives by altering
their attitudes of mind. As you think, so shall you be.
~ William James
OBSERVATION
To put the world right in order, we must
first put the nation in order; to put the nation in
order, we must first put the family in order; to put the
family in order, we must first cultivate our personal
life; we must first set our hearts right. ~ Confucius
ADVICE
Water your Self, nourish your Self, and the
beauty of the flower you are, will be undeniable in every
moment. Let your beauty flow from you like the fragrance of the
rose. Live Green! Be the Rose! Be the Tree! Be YOU! ~ Rick
Schuster
TILT (This I Learned Today)
Love comes in two forms. The first is the
FEELING of love, which is
what partners hope to eventually create in each other.
The second is COMMITMENT of care, which is what affection
communicates.
When you express
affection to your partner, you are not telling him/her you
are IN love with him/her, but rather that you care about
him/her, and will be there for him/her when he/she needs
you. So you can honestly express affection even if you are
not in love, as long as you have chosen to care for your
partner.
But if you have not chosen to care for him/her, then you are
really in trouble, because it's your willingness to care for
each other that makes it possible to be IN LOVE with each
other. Without your care for each other, you're very
unlikely to meet the needs that will trigger your feeling of
love.
Be an expert at meeting your partner's need for affection
because that's what it will take for him/her to be in love
with you. And be sure that he/she does the same for you by
meeting your most important emotional needs - not because
you demand it, but because you both care for each other.
When you have both learned to make each other happy,
you'll be able to tell your partner that you not only care
for him/her, but you are also in love with him/her.
AND
A COUPLE OTHER THINGS
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