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Issue number 9 Tuesday Talk 29 June 2004

 

Deep breath.  I am getting dangerously close to another birthday... another year within which I shall have accumulated wisdom and memories.  Things are hangin' a little closer to the earth these days.  And, I am learning to embrace the character as it is acquired...

 

So, here is the finale for June.  Enjoy the drive... and the ride.

 

Have a superb week.

x's and o's

Tamara

 

"If you can't laugh at yourself, you're missing out on a really good joke." ~ Charlie Sheen

 

RECOMMENDED READING FROM SandDollartm L.I.Ptm. service AND LiveInPeace.infosm Here are books that have strummed a chord with us recently…  enjoy:

·                             Women Who Run with the Wolves, Clarissa Pinkola Estes

·                             Tuesdays with Morrie, Mitch Albom

·                             Authentic Happiness, Martin E P Seligman

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EXPERIENCE

As I merged into traffic and approached the red light at the intersection, an SUV scurried upon me.  The driver honked - not a light tap tap, but a long hard hhhhoooonnnnnkkk.  I glanced in my rearview mirror and saw the middle finger of her left hand proffered to me.  I inhaled deeply, then exhaled and thought, "I am sorry you are having such a rough day... and I do not wish to participate in your anger.  Peace be with you."  Then she veered over to the lane next to me and slowly passed, only to be halted one car length ahead of me in the adjacent lane... still giving me the "one-finger-wave" ... I have heard that road rage is greatest among suburban-utility-vehicle driving moms ... still, this incident surprised me.  I guess it would be less perplexing had I cut her off when getting into traffic or if I had somehow threatened her safety, or even if it had appeared that she was off in some emergency -- but that was apparently not the case here.  Further inventory of the situation reveals that I don’t have a bumper sticker begging to be beeped at or a sign requesting gestures of one's point of view...  Hmmm, Maybe she doesn't like gray sedans...

OBSERVATION

If not for screeching tires, the blaring horns or occasional sirens, when I close my eyes the whir of traffic passing could resemble the sound waves make hitting the shore.  And, conversely, with my eyes closed, waves lapping up on the shore could sound like cars passing. Whoosh, whoosh, whoosh.  Only one offers cool comfort when wading in, and both offer danger if you step in too far.   

ADVICE

Drive as if you had all the time in the world... and still don't dawdle. 

 

TILT (This I Learned Today)

I took a new route to a familiar place.  When driving home, I turned down a neighboring street and came upon my garage from a different direction.  It was interesting because I got a fresh perspective and the garden didn't look so bad after all... 

AND A COUPLE OTHER THINGS

There was a "joke" going around among the guys at a gathering... it went like this:   "If it has tits or tires, it'll give you trouble."  It was stated with a shaking of the head and a HuH type laugh.  When addressed with the bit, I replied, "Unless you service it rightly."  Tune it up, get alignment, fuel it, let things cool when they get too hot...  funny how similar taking care of a car is to taking care of a relationship...

 

Remember to change your oil...  I recommend an almond-based massage oil with patchouli for an enriching experience...

 

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